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Chapter One: How to Date Without Losing Your Mind. 4,200 words of sharp, honest, and very relatable advice.
Why your type is probably sabotaging you
The 3 types of gay dater — and which one you are
How to survive the talking stage with your dignity intact
When to walk away (and how to actually do it)
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Chapter 1 — Excerpt
"The first thing to understand about gay dating is that everyone is doing it wrong. Including you. Including me. The difference is whether you know it."
We arrived in the era of dating apps with the same optimism as tourists arriving at an all-inclusive resort — full of hope, slightly overdressed, and completely unprepared for what the buffet actually looks like at 2am.
The gay dating landscape is a particular kind of beautiful chaos. It is simultaneously more open and more rigid than anything straight culture has produced. We have fewer rules and more expectations. More freedom and more judgment. And absolutely no one has written a decent guide to navigating it.
Until now, obviously.
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Breakups & Reinvention
Chapter 4
Sex, Confidence & Self-Worth
Chapter 5
Queer Culture & Survival
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